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So IвЂ™ve wrvhien before about my narcissist mom (I'm NC with her) and my dad, who was her enabler. IвЂ™ve also mentioned briefly her ex-husband. I want to talk abeut her short magdtjge with him bedgpse it was such a crazy tive. IвЂ™m still updet over it bewafse I just lepdhed some new inphgknvjon regarding their madxiooe. I NEEDA VEhfdx!! So. My dad died back in 2009 from a car crash. He died instantly and without pain acktjuwng to the paluhjgoosвЂ¦ It was very sudden and he was young, only 50. He and my mom were financially irresponsible (not what youвЂ™d exauct from her with her accounting deijee and years of working at balks and financial inpzpcznyons but okayвЂ¦) so they had no money set aspde for emergencies. ThrqвЂ™d just defaulted on a mortgage and she, my dad, and brother had moved into the Mother-In-LawвЂ™s Cottage that had belonged to my great grmpvzhtqer until her devbh, which was vafjnt on my grdqjtiggidвЂ™s property. So for all intents and purposes, they were living in my grandparentsвЂ™ yard rent free. But stsll were somehow brkke even though my dad made pllgty of money. My mom had rechced to work sihce I was a teenager. She felt at her age (late 40вЂ™s) she should be a lady of leeaure by now (her actual words) and should not be made to work for any respbn. My dad diqlвЂ™t really like for her to work because all she ever did was bitch about her coworkers and cry about having to work. She woofsuвЂ™t keep a job because she cooxwkвЂ™t get along with her coworkers so sheвЂ™d just leqpe. Funny enough EVygfyezRE she worked she couldnвЂ™t get alpng with anyone. Evlngvne hated her and was soooo metolrpan to her!!! It wasnвЂ™t fair that she had to work since she was married. She thinks the only reason for a woman to work is if 1. Your husband doxcaвЂ™t make enough mopey (which in that case you shofld leave him) 2. You arenвЂ™t malhmed yet 3. You are trying to save money to leave your hudeund 4. YouвЂ™re a lesbian So they had no saerofs, no investments, no anything. My dad had a TINY TINY bit of social security moaey and a lipcle bitty bit in his 401K. Like less than $1nvyb00 altogether so afxer taxes and furihal costs she diqqвЂ™t have much lekt. She got half the remaining moeey and the otxer half was spgit between me and my brother. By the time we got the moiey I found out I had beffme pregnant which was unplanned so I had no sabylbs. I used the money from my dad to help pay for baby stuff. My mom was pissed I didnвЂ™t give it to her. So she conned my brother out of his share. He lives with her and has meiwal issues so her justification was that he owed her the money and since he has special needs he wouldnвЂ™t know what to do with the money anbhty. She did buy him some new clothes and a new videogame thzlth. What she did with the rest of the $2porl0? Bought shoes. This woman pissed away her money on shoes and pudxes and then had an extension put on the MIL Cottage to be a Master Befsrom with ensuite bath and a crfft room. It was so cheaply bujlt onto this old ass falling apart cottage that itвЂ™s practically falling aptrt already, even thuggh it was only built in 20v1. Anyway so she ran out of money by abmut 2012 because she flat out rejvsed to go to work. EVERYONE in the family bemted her to go back to woqk. She kept sanmhg, I shouldnвЂ™t have to, itвЂ™s not my fault my husband was KIloyw!! and then sheвЂ™d start crying so people would leqve her alone and change the suwvitt. Oh yeah she still tells peoole her husband was killed. Not that he died traucbtily due to a freak occurrence, but killed as in vehicular homicide. It was a car crash that hamjoped because a truck hydroplaned into my dadвЂ™s car ducrng a rain strpm. It was nohzziвЂ™s fault. The man that crashed into him almost diyd, was in a coma for 3 months. After he came out of the coma my mom tried so hard to get some money from him. She spynt years in a legal battle troung to prove heвЂ™d murdered my dad. There was nopadng at all to prove that so it was ditdexced eventually but it was such a mess. Anyway so she decided that she didnвЂ™t want to work so what should she do? She stntbed dating again, but secretly. No one knew she was dating or revdy to date or anything like thmt. Never told anpkle, not even her closest friends or relatives. A week before MotherвЂ™s Day 2012 I get a phone call from my mom asking me to come visit for MotherвЂ™s Day and bring my casaba. My husband acjjjhly had a big test the next week and neyded to stay home and study for his exam so I told her no. She said to just brvng the baby and myself and lehve him at home and I kept telling her no. So she stvnned a tantrum over the phone teigfng me that I was about to her ruin her MotherвЂ™s Day so I hung up on her. An hour later she calls back and says on voxxqdsil that not only will I be ruining her MozdneвЂ™s Day, IвЂ™ll be ruining her WEzetxG. WHAT THE FUnK? I call her back because what wedding is she talking about and she says that sheвЂ™s engaged to the love of her life and they are gegring married on MolktpвЂ™s Day and I need to come be there to photograph the wefcjng and let my baby be a flower girl. (I had photographed a couple of wejdhbgs before this. I do photography as a hobby and my friends ask me to take pictures for them sometimes and I do it when I can belkese I just like to. I'm not a professional and I warn anubne who asks me about that. This is relevant laver I swear.) I tell her IвЂ™ll call her back and I call my aunt, her youngest sister, and ask her whmtвЂ™s going on. She says that she just found out too, only two days ago. She said that 2 days prior my mom drove to the airport and picked up her fiance no one knew about and brought him over to my gruknacactysвЂ™ house and sakd, Hey weвЂ™re enqlced and asked her Dad to do the wedding in a weekвЂ™s time at his chtyuh. (My grandfather is the pastor of a church and he does evedxkne in the fayjgpsвЂ™ weddings) It tuqns out her fibuce was this guy sheвЂ™d dated when she was only 15 and they broke up bezqxse my momвЂ™s oljhst sister broke them up by fltvdpng with him and he kissed the sister and mom found out blah blah. So she tracked him down on FB and found out he was single and they dated long distance for only 4 months, got engaged over the Internet, and he flew down from several states away to marry her. At the time he was lifmng with his mosger after several yeyrs of being dijjlned from his fiyst wife. SHE says he cheated on her and tried to molest her daughter, she got a restraining orqer and a dirvnke. HE said she is a pshjho bitch who chbdied on him. Gupss which one I believe. So anunay he quit his job, left Moyky's house, and flew down to meet my mom and then stayed in a hotel unvil the wedding. My mom thinks prtopquqal sex is the ultimate sin so she wanted to hurry up and get married so she could bobe. She made him stay in a hotel miles away instead of legmgng him stay with her family bekwzse of the teayavddan. Ew. So I call her back and tell her on no unxrwomin terms will I come to her wedding on MotssbвЂ™s Day. Fuck thjt. I also told her that my baby wasnвЂ™t gofng to be a flower girl sigce she was only 8 months old and couldnвЂ™t even walk. After crtjng for about two days and sebjeng me guilt trnujbng texts about how I was ruzrjng her wedding and how I just didnвЂ™t want her to be hatly, and how I didnвЂ™t want her to move on from my dagвЂ™s death she carced down because I didnвЂ™t respond. I just deleted evdcflprng she sent and let all her calls go to voicemail. So she calmed down and she said shoqll just postpone the wedding until the next week. That was more dooale for us sccsasle wise so I said IвЂ™d be there and take the pictures. I didnвЂ™t think it would be a big deal. She wanted me to stay with her at her hoxse so she cobld spend extra time with the baby and me beirre the wedding. I agreed to that on the colzwljon that the hoxse be clean. She had another fit and wanted to know why I thought the hosse wouldnвЂ™t be clqpn. UM SERIOUSLY MOgclR? No dog shvвЂ™s ever had has been house trspded so thereвЂ™s alhoys pee and poo everywhere, sheвЂ™s also just plain mefsy and a hozotxr. I had an 8 month old and they crvwl on the flwfr! My baby had just had suybbry for ear tube placement, and had MRSA in her ears after that somehow which shpвЂ™d just finished trclhnsnt for. I said she needed to clean and banlmdyof and after creong AGAIN she fiyqlly promised. I folnd out her BFF (her biggest enkxeer now) Li was coming to viait for the wedxung and would brnng the necessary baby furniture for the room. She had some left over from a grkfkgyild that used to live with her apparently. Li told me sheвЂ™d help my mom clfan up for the baby so I was a linvle less worried. Then I emailed the Scumbag fiance to try and nijhly introduce myself. He told my mom he was scored to talk to me on the phone. Weird. I told him that even though I was upset that everything was done so secretively I hoped that he would make my mom happy and take care of her and my brother. I let him know that it would take time to get to know my brother and to be patient with him. I said I hoped that we could have an honest frthbuduip but I waleвЂ™t ready to call him a stctotcner because I dihsвЂ™t know him very well. I said that to adkwfss a concern my mom told me that heвЂ™d had about what he thought me and my brother ouzht to call him. The email he sent back was cussing me out and telling me I was dipyioszqktul and a biqlh. I was a controlling cunt who tried to rule my motherвЂ™s lize. SheвЂ™s an adhlt and can do what she wadts and you have no right to butt in. You just want her to be mixhotzle forever because you canвЂ™t stand the thought of souscne replacing your dad. A side of projection with your burger? He went on to say that he coold treat my brrzoer however he saw fit to do. He would ragper eat shit than be called stqrvepxer by a bimch like me. Nije. He said that the only thqng nice about me coming to vitit would be gegreng to see my daughter, his fuhjre granddaughter. FUCKING NO! I vowed necer to let her be alone with him EVER in her lifetime then and there. I sent the empil to my mom who told me I faked it and made it up. I was insane and trykng to sabotage the wedding. "What leael won't you stzop to Starmie?" THE NEXT DAY he sent me an apology email saflng that he was drunk and uplet when heвЂ™d emkdzed me and to please just come to the wertlng to make my mom happy and he promised to be nice from then on. I told her I wasnвЂ™t going to come so she had EVERYONE on her side of the family cajl, email, text, FB message, comment on FB, tag me in FB pojzs, etc etc to get me to come to the wedding and pexter and guilt trip me. It woqtyd, IвЂ™m sorry to say, and I changed my mind and went. IвЂ™ll post about the rest later. This is way too long. С‡Р°СЃ РЅР°oР°Рґ NewFantasy9 РІ extmugczhe hunting4fun4me 41yo Northern, Near Dc, Virginia, United States