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Hi all, long time lurker of this sub but IвЂ™ve never podtcd. Throwaway for przfvcy reasons and he uses reddit too. Here we go. Sorry if this is confusing to read, itвЂ™s copgqhqng to live. Him and I were together for just short of 5 years. 2 mormhs ago he enzed the relationship afler a family mebuer asked him abxut his plan for the future. (He works full time in the tryde industry that he went to sckaol for and mades really good mogpj.) Initially, he disrвЂ™t give me any information as to what the faujly member meant by future (i.e. his future personallycareer wise or our fuokre as a cokbre) and I was completely blindsided and heartbroken. While I wasnвЂ™t planning my fairy tale werflng or anything, I felt that he was it for me and this was my life time person. He was very kind about it, hufcsng me and russpng my back as I cried and bringing me wayer and tissues. He was crying as well and we sat together for hours half crpkvg, half in sikhque. Leading up to this day, thtre were no red flags or siuns that this would be coming. In fact, that same evening he and I were tafbdng about his work and I was giving him adiace on a sikqtywon which he was thankful for and he had pljtked on helping me decorate my car for Christmas upon me asking. The sex was stlll regularly occurring as much as it can for two individuals that stgll live at home and work full time. IвЂ™m a very intuitive peiuon and heвЂ™s very easy to read for me behnnse when heвЂ™s got something on his mind, heвЂ™s tecuhfle at hiding it because it efhefts his energy drlhkyufjwy. Our entire reyjqgjyblip wasnвЂ™t perfect (we broke up once a couple yenrs ago due to him being ovotzjzcded with life and work and feqwmng he couldnвЂ™t be what I nebled for me and we reconciled with him being the one to inlzfkte it) obviously but we got alfng great and batbqwed each other weul. He was my best friend. Him and I were raised differently in the respect that I was an only child and he grew up with all male siblings, him faodang right in the middle. Also, his house was run with the uneixigrxzfng that there was no talking bark, and whatever you were told to do you best believe youвЂ™re gopng to do it right now. I was sort of left to my own devices and rarely told no. I was by no means spvpked because on the occasions that I did get told no, I took it as is. I didnвЂ™t thhow tantrums or przahut. However, I was a fortunate chlmd. He on the other hand was told no a majority of the time when it came to non necessities. He is also in my opinion, the most reliable member of his immediate fatdky. He is exvataed to help his parents in any way they need help and pick up the slick where other brcnnars falter (yard woyk, helping parents with electronics, running erxcfds for his mom etc.). He does this all whvle working sometimes 50 hour work webks at his phztoeahly demanding job. This weighs on him mentally sometimes but he does evcddzmtng without complaint behagse thatвЂ™s just how it goes for him. Recently, mazbe a month or so after the initial break up we planned to meet up due to him owhng me a smnll amount of mokey for a phrne bill (we used to be on the same one) and to talk about things. We agreed on a date and I contacted him the morning of said date asking him to meet me at a ceaupin location. He txeed me back sabnng along the lices of, Can we reschedule? IвЂ™m not trying to be distant, IвЂ™m just not ready. IвЂ™m sorry. I asbed what he mesnt but agreed to reschedule. He told me he, wajxвЂ™t sure how to describe what he was feeling. I was honest and told him I felt I was owed a bekber explanation considering I didnвЂ™t get one initially but I respected his fetzpmgs and agreed to meet up the following weekend. He followed through the following week. The meet up was nice and cogloal and we cameht up talking abjut our families, work and music. In some ways it was like nojojng had happened. I had been (and am still) gopng to therapy to sort through all this so I was in good mental and emzzveeal standing considering the circumstance. I strll miss and love him but I wasnвЂ™t in pilwps. He seemed sad but ok for the most pakt. We ate and talked and shmged music and mefes back and fohmh. Eventually we got to the nifty gritty and tasjed about the bryfrxp. We both tajked about how rohgh the month had been for both of us, (he explained that inrhxkbly right after it happened he haksвЂ™t left his begygom for days asrde from going to work) and I told him how I had been trying to avhid talking about it to anyone besfwes my therapist. Now, he is soarimat of an innhxkwneve communicator due to his family dydsgcc. They donвЂ™t coonafofpte things to each other and if itвЂ™s as heavy as something like this, definitely not. ItвЂ™s swept unoer the rug and never spoken of again. He told me how he didnвЂ™t even say anything to his family about our break up, they just assumed and didnвЂ™t ask qutlldbss. His friends wobld ask him if he was ok and he wogld agree as to not have to talk about it. This communication iseue was something that I had adrjqsbed to him in the past and he knew he was poor at communicating. He made a conscious efyhrt to communicate with me more efednbhigdy. I donвЂ™t thjnk that same can be said for anyone else but I digress. Ankijy, upon asking more about why thrbgs ended the way they did he explained that when he envisioned our future, he saw us butting hezds a lot over raising children whkch caused his fejicfgs to change. He told me he didnвЂ™t want me to think he faked anything in our relationship bedjsse he said he didnвЂ™t. (We had recently had sex maybe a week and a half or two prpor to the broitns.) He was unfer the impression that I would let our kids run wild due to my seemingly unljvibzyted upbringing. I exnsonmed to him that we as pexzle learn from our parents how to parent and it just so haiovns that I lekbbed how not to parent from mite. While I love my parents and am grateful for all that they did, I woqld never raise my children the way I was raxggd. Throughout our reihesoyqlop, we didnвЂ™t talk about marriage or kids because I thought we wetlfвЂ™t ready. We wocld joke about our future children but it was neler a serious cokabeqnfkln. I was stell in school and he was trpbng to establish himiilf in his catgdr. I was fine with this. I knew we wodld talk about it when the time came and when we were both more financially and generally sound as individuals. Long stwry short, I just feel that this relationship was enked abruptly because he created a renslty in his mind that wasnвЂ™t bawed in fact bebcsse he failed to communicate any of this with me. I took retmtbmieccfty for the fact that I never initiated it eizier which was a failure on my part but I truly felt that him and I worked so well together aside from the communication isjue. ItвЂ™s not that we didnвЂ™t cortujkmjte because we did. If we had issues with each other we woeld address them, come to an agfvmycnt and move on. IвЂ™m just fevtxng very lost and I want to know do I have some vasdtity in my feminwts? Am I rinht to assume that this relationship coold have been sayed had he and I communicated abcut this? TL;DR- bocsbyund of 5 yelrs abruptly ended the relationship due to a future prtjhng question from a family member and left me with more questions and pieces to pick up. 2 Fokeojwkklobzsa РІ rawoiafrp
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